A star beyond his reach
He and I dated 7 years ago. I fell head-over-heels in love with him. He was my knight in dented armor. But as suddenly as we started our relationship, he started seeing someone else and there are I stayed, clinging to something that should have died so long ago.
I didn't leave him right away because I loved him. I was convinced that he was meant to be my lifemate and that he just needed time to see that. Although my heart was shattered and I was angry, hurt, and depressed, I was set on changing his mind.
When I read I'm Not Easily Forgotten About by Beth Ann Rock, it was like someone had turned my anger and hurt into a poem and shared it with the world. For a while I sang, cried, drank and waited, and while I was healing I met some amazing people. I had been completely scorned, but for the most part I held on while I waited for them to realize what an amazing person I am.
After a huge scene and 3 years of not talking to him, I finally gave up and in the middle of one of the worst periods of my life, I met someone awesome, who really saw everything I could be. I've been in a relationship with someone for 3 years now. I am happy and loved.
Walk away. The person who's using you is too selfish and too blind to see what you are and what you can be.
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